I know this is late, but it goes without saying that I need to pay tribute to the most selfless, nurturing, and unequivocally tenacious person I have ever been blessed to know. Having been born with one hand, a birth defect, to two Holocaust survivors, my mother, in her youth, endured the guilt of her parent's trauma as well as the agonizing truth that she was "different" from other children. I thank my lucky stars that my mother was born "different", because it has given her a level of understanding and patience that I will never know. In 2009, she was diagnosed with breast cancer, for the second time, in this instance, opting to undergo a twelve hour surgery resulting in a mastectomy. I was emotionally wasted, nearly suffering a nervous breakdown at the thought of losing my best friend to an unpredictable and non bias disease, but she was a beacon of strength throughout the entire operation as well as her recovery. I am delighted to report that my mother has been in remission for over three years and is not only doing remarkably well, but thriving. If that's not a phenomenal role model, I don't know what is.
Cherish the things that may annoy you most about your loved ones as life is uncertain. It's absolutely wasteful to argue over superficial nonsense.
And lastly...remember that your mother brought you into this world so she can sure as hell take you out!
LOVE this post A! So thoughtful. I also love your table setting.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great inspiration and such a sweet lady!
xoDonna
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Thank you! All mom's deserve a gold star. It's the most difficult job there is.
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Your mom is so beautiful and strong! Thank you for sharing this amazing story with us all. It makes me miss my mama in heaven so much! Moms really are the BEST of friends! Happy Mother's Day to your mom!
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Awe...this made me well up a bit. I'm so sorry for your loss, but you will be all the things to your daughter that your mother was to you, so in essence, her spirit will continue to live on. :)
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Aww your momma is gorge and those curly locks!! Glad she is safe and sound now, she's a trooper!
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AllergicToVanilla.com
Thanks sweet pea. She is pretty darn strong...much stronger than any man I have ever known. :) Haha
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